Texting is highly impersonal. You can't hear the other persons voice or even glimpse their face(which would help greatly in the communication department). Many a time I have misinterpreted people's reactions and feelings via text messaging. Because words have difficulty conveying emotions(unless you use the big ones. :) And we all know the typical teenager has a limited vocabulary. Like OMG, that's so true!) especially text-speak.
hey how r u
gr8 lol
what r u up 2
nm hbu
same lol
OMG! ( my favorite text-speak word.:] ) guess what happened 2 me 2day!?marbles askd me out!!!
OMG! thats awesm grl no way! good 4 u
hes soo hott
smokn lol
well i gtg
kk ily
i<3u 2
c u 2mro
Well, that took longer for something that is supposed to be short hand. My stupid grammar skills interfered. I forgot there is no such thing as punctuation and capital letters in texting land. I'm terribly sorry if you parted with brain cells after reading my fake and dreadfully shallow rendition of bubble-head teenagers text speaking.
Now I know it seems as if I am hating on texting. Don't get me wrong; I text too and am guilty of replacing my yous with just a u. But only if I am in a hurry. I make every effort to capitalize, punctuate, and spell accurately whenever I am texting. If I had it my way I would not text nearly as much as I do. But as I stated before, it is the preferred method of my friends. It can be convenient in certain situations. I just feel people are forgetting how to have real conversations. A real discussion is where you give the other person your undivided attention-- maybe even making eye contact. Replying using one word, through an electronic device, while you shovel food into your mouth, worrying about the Geometry test you have 5th hour is not really talking to someone. It requires almost no physical or mental effort.